That's an excellent post. I sometimes wonder if guys get so flooded with testosterone when they're on the hunt (ew) that they either can't see the signals or if they simply choose to ignore them and so they can then claim confusion and indignation. Who hasn't heard, "But I'm a nice guy! You don't know what you're missing." at least once in her life?

My choice, mister. I don't care if you're the nicest guy on the planet - I don't know that if you're trying to pick me up at the bus stop, and I don't care to find out.